Jen called me yesterday morning. She wanted to go get a tattoo and wanted to know were to go.
Oy.
I know she had been talking about getting one for a while. I just hope she didn't get it in the hopes that Fred will come back. The whore has tattoos also, and I'm afraid Jen wanted to get one just to prove she can be "like" the whore.
So today after helping mom with the kids, I met her down at the place that re-did my shoulder tat. She ended up going with Wilma Flintstone with a sthethoscope wrapped around the neck, like a nurse wears. It's very cute, and she had it put on her left hip. Jim, the guy who did mine, didn't do hers. It was a new guy that they hired about a month ago. His name is John, and he's got a loverly English accent, and he's totally HOT!!!!! Typical though, he's married with a new baby.
So anyway, in our conversation, she told me that since Fred has overdrawn his account to the tune of $700+, they have taken it out of her account, and froze her account. He claims he's talked with his dad, and his dad is going to give him some money to get out of this situation. Fred said that he would make sure the money got put back in her account. But she's not going to say anything to him about the $600 he borrowed from her in June. She doesn't think its a good time to mention it. I told her, that she is screwing herself by being so nice about it. And she says she knows it, but things are not all hunky-dory between Fred and the whore right now, and this is added stress that he doesn't need. To freaking bad. I told her that he was the one who has dug this hole that he finds himself in, and by her being nice, she's the one who ends up getting the worst of the deal. Fred called her this morning and was bitching about their oldest son, and how he's got an attitude. Jen told him that he is 11 and doesn't have the coping skills to deal with this. He is very angry at his dad, and he lets his dad know it. She also said that Fred knows she wants the Stang back, and she is going to talk to him about it tonight. Jen also told me that he told her, last night he sat through a 3 hour lecture from the whore about his lack of communication skills. And in Fred words, "they live like a bunch of fucking pigs." They don't do dishes, laundry sits around the house, they will walk around an open bag of garbage out in the yard, and not stop to clean it up.
They boys have invited me up for dinner tonight and have a bonefire with them. So I will be heading up there in a while.
And with that....I'm off to snooze just for a bit....