Winter Chill...
Fun conversations with asshat
(2005-09-27, 1:21 a.m.)
Okay, this is part of a conversation I had with asshat on Sunday night. Witness the whining�it�s grand I tell you, just grand.

asshat (9/25/2005 8:25:23 PM): I hate life
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 8:25:46 PM): why?
asshat (9/25/2005 8:26:45 PM): tired of trying
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 8:26:55 PM): trying what?
asshat (9/25/2005 8:27:35 PM): everything.....work, love and life in flippin general
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 8:27:54 PM): so your just going to give up?

The conversation continued for a bit, along those same lines. Read on for some more joyful entertainment.

asshat (9/25/2005 9:15:40 PM): ok
asshat (9/25/2005 9:15:59 PM): whatever
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 9:16:51 PM): okay....be crabby....
asshat (9/25/2005 9:18:28 PM): sorry hun...but like I said...I am just not in a very good mood...I told kim to kiss my ass....and I wanted to pursue someone else
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 9:19:03 PM): who?
asshat (9/25/2005 9:20:29 PM): you.....but you live to far away sweetheart
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 9:21:17 PM): oh....so you don't think you would like to pursue anything......
asshat (9/25/2005 9:21:31 PM): i made my mind up weeks ago
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 9:21:44 PM): oh........okay....
asshat (9/25/2005 9:22:27 PM): do you think it could happen with the distance I don't

Okay�my question to you good readers, how would you interpret the previous little nugget of insight from Tony?

asshat (9/25/2005 11:22:42 PM): but how can we Sara ?
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 11:23:57 PM): yeah......it's probably best to remain friends....distance just isn't a good thing for us....
asshat (9/25/2005 11:24:18 PM): fine
frogstar14 (9/25/2005 11:24:53 PM): okay....I should get some sleep....i have to work in the am.....
asshat (9/25/2005 11:25:18 PM): sweet dreams doll
asshat (9/25/2005 11:26:11 PM): maybe you will change your mind one day

Again, what the hell does �Maybe you will change your mind one day � mean? You just stated previously that you had made your mind up weeks ago that you didn�t want to pursue any kind of relationship with me. So, what good would it do me to change my mind, if you already made up yours? Am I missing something?

This is from tonight. It was waiting for me when I signed on. Not that I have to defend myself to him, but I got home a bit late, and had to clean the kitty litter boxes. So I wasn�t signed on at my normal time.

asshat (9/26/2005 11:19:59 PM): let me guess�you hate me to ?
asshat (9/26/2005 11:21:50 PM): fuck it....later
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:27:01 PM): what is going on? I just got home....
asshat (9/26/2005 11:28:48 PM): who cares
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:29:57 PM): what do you want me to say? I don't understand why you leave me a message about hating you...which I don't....and then you act this way when I question you......
asshat (9/26/2005 11:30:42 PM): I am so sick of woman treating me this way
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:31:20 PM): whom are you referring to?
asshat (9/26/2005 11:33:12 PM): you told me that we should just be friend....right ?
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:33:55 PM): because you said that you had decided a few weeks ago not to pursue anything with me...so yes I did say that.....
asshat (9/26/2005 11:34:35 PM): wrong....I said I decided to pursue WITH you

What? Did I lose something in the translation? Or did I suddenly lose my ability to comprehend English? So I copied to previous clip and sent it to him. His brilliant response�

asshat (9/26/2005 11:39:45 PM): your wrong Sara....and I am sorry you miss read..
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:40:19 PM): so what has got you in a tizzy tonight?
asshat (9/26/2005 11:41:05 PM): life in flippin general lol
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:42:00 PM): okay.....so is that any reason to get pissy with me?
asshat (9/26/2005 11:42:27 PM): nope...sorry
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:43:36 PM): Tony, we are friends....I understand things are shitty for you right now....I truly do......but when you come at me with comments about hating you....It frustrates me.....
asshat (9/26/2005 11:44:01 PM): shoot me
asshat (9/26/2005 11:44:41 PM): I am not going to put up with this
asshat (9/26/2005 11:45:15 PM): you don't understand shit
asshat (9/26/2005 11:45:41 PM): kill me
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:45:43 PM): no...I don't want to shoot you....I would like you to understand that.....that really turns me off......well if you don't want to put up with it.....then don�t....in fact....we are done talking......later.
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:45:56 PM): I will not be talked to that way�

I don�t understand shit? Well, I might not know exactly what you are going through, but I�m trying to be as supportive and encouraging as I can. But when you verbally start attacking me, we are fucking done. No if, ands, or buts about it. Oh but it gets better�

asshat (9/26/2005 11:46:39 PM): see....you fucking run......why Sara ?
asshat (9/26/2005 11:46:58 PM): fucking later
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:47:19 PM): because I do not deserve to be talked to like that.....your being a jerk......I�m not......
asshat (9/26/2005 11:47:20 PM): I don't need this shit
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:48:04 PM): neither do I......I'm not running�but I don't tolerate being treated like shit�it has happened before...I don't put up with it.....
asshat (9/26/2005 11:49:29 PM): you are running....but your still a doll...I am not...later
asshat (9/26/2005 11:49:54 PM): wanted more.....sorry
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:50:00 PM): I guess we have a difference of opinion.......
asshat (9/26/2005 11:50:17 PM): whatever
frogstar14 (9/26/2005 11:50:22 PM): whatever

I don�t think you know what the fuck you want. But I can tell you it�s not going to be anything with me. Regardless of the history between us, and the damn pink bracelet, it�s done. I mean, am I missing something? Is this how you are supposed to treat someone you like? Am I that far out of the loop, because if so, let me know, so I can adjust my thinking and become someone�s doormat. Because that is so much fun!

I have to be up and have Eli at the Vet�s around 8AM for his snip and clip, then to the hospital for a meeting at 10. After that, over to the parentals to feed the babies. Go pick up my check from the tile shop, get home for a nap and then back to the hospital. However long I�m at the meeting, I will just tell bossman to use it on Thursday night, so I can leave early and start my long weekend!

I posted last night that I was chatting with Kristen. Well our conversation lasted 2 hours, and we created a new game. We would pick a person from work and try to guess how many people they have slept with. Yeah�a good time for sure.
The pillows and my nice big soft bed are calling to me�